Film reveals Gilbert Gottfried as both uncouth comic and devoted dad

SHARE Film reveals Gilbert Gottfried as both uncouth comic and devoted dad

In “Gilbert,” the cameras capture comedian Gilbert Gottfried’s relationship with his long-suffering wife, Dara. | GRAVITAS VENTURES

The astonishing thing about “Gilbert” is the behind-the-curtain record it provides of the real Gilbert Gottfried.

As opposed to the eyes-wide-shut, screeching maniac famous for his politically incorrect stand-up routines and his voice-over work as the parrot Iago in Disney’s “Aladdin” and as the Aflac duck — although that latter gig famously blew up due to some untimely tsunami jokes. (More on that later.)

All these years, whether he was doing stand-up or participating in comedy roasts or doing talk-show guest appearances, Gilbert stayed locked in the “Gilbert” persona. Like Buddy Hackett before him, he would persist in using a distinctive, cartoonishly exaggerated voice. Even when Gottfried spent a full morning on the Howard Stern show, disrupting interviews and chiming in on the news with hilarious and often wildly inappropriate comments, he would deflect personal questions and remain in character.

In Neil Berkeley’s fascinating, very funny and sometimes quite melancholy “Gilbert,” we get to see the hunched-over, eccentric, surprisingly thoughtful man behind the comedic myth — and while he’s just as strange as we imagined he’d be, he’s also a loving husband and a devoted father to two wonderful and seemingly very well-adjusted children.

We spend an equal amount of time with Gilbert on the road and in his home — a beautifully appointed, $3 million townhouse where Gilbert shuffles about in his robe, trading banter with his patient wife Dara and playing with his children Lily (10) and Max (8), who delight in spending time with their father and have reached the age where they realize he’s a “character” as well as a character.

“There’s toys of him and stuffed animals of him,” says son Max with a smile.

Even Gilbert seems surprised at the normalcy of his home life: “Quite often I look at my life like a ‘Twilight Zone’ episode, where the guy wakes up in a totally different world,” he says.

We get a solid recap of Gottfried’s career, which started when he was still a teenager playing the clubs in New York. Comics such as Lewis Black, Joe Piscopo, Howie Mandel, Artie Lange and Patton Oswalt comment on Gilbert’s unique, fearless style, and his utter strangeness.

Gottfried reflects on the infamous “Too Soon!” moments in his career: when he made jokes about the World Trade Center attacks just weeks after the tragedy, and when he tweeted a number of jokes about the Japanese tsunami in 2011 — causing Aflac (an insurance company with millions of clients in Japan) to fire him from a ridiculously cushy and lucrative gig in which he was paid about $1 million a year to simply bellow, “Aflac!”

As for Gottfried’s legendary cheapness, “Gilbert” makes it clear that’s no comedic bit. We see him soaking his socks and underwear in the sinks of hotel rooms. His wife shows us enormous plastic storage bins stowed away in the house — tubs filled with dozens of pairs of hotel slippers, free T-shirts from radio stations, hundreds of sample-sized shampoos, soaps, deodorants and toothpastes.

“When we moved from his apartment, he had soaps from Pan Am and Eastern Airlines,” says Dara.

In the most touching sequences, Gilbert visits with his sister Arlene, who is battling cancer (she died in August), and when he tears up when talking about his late parents.

There’s not the least bit of shtick in him in these intimate family moments.

Gilbert Gottfried will appear via Skype at the 5 p.m. Sunday screening.


Gravitas Venturespresents a documentary directed by Neil Berkeley. No MPAA rating. Running time: 99 minutes. Opens Friday at the Gene Siskel Film Center.

The Latest
Much of the Illinois Department of Transportation’s funding for this program is coming from the state’s $45 billion Rebuild Illinois Capital Plan but almost $16 billion more is expected to come in from the federal government.
Manager Tony La Russa admitted he pondered keeping Kopech in the game but thought the long-term considerations weighed more heavily.
They entered their game Friday against the Tigers swinging at 36.4% of pitches outside of the strike zone, the highest percentage in the American League, according to Fangraphs.
The unclassified documents from the Obama administration are at the official Obama Presidential Library in Hoffman Estates; classified material is in Maryland.
Some records were marked “sensitive compartmented information,” a category meant to protect the nation’s most important secrets — secrets that, if revealed publicly, could cause “exceptionally grave” damage to U.S. interests.