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Someone in Chicago wants to support lemonade stands but shuns germs

Young entrepreneurs and supportive patrons can meet each other halfway on this. Here are some thoughts on how to do that.

By Ismael Pérez

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Someone in Chicago is struggling with the 'Sunday scaries'

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Someone in Chicago thinks neighbor's camera is invasive

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Someone in Chicago doesn't want family member in wedding party

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Someone in Chicago is shy and striking out on dating apps

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Someone in Chicago is tired of being partner's personal driver

Instead of investing your time in keeping him happy and comfortable, look for ways he can gain his independence.

By Ismael Pérez

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Someone in Chicago can't stop procrastinating

It can be overwhelming when you have a backlog of passion projects, but there are things you can do to prioritize which ones really are most important — and to make them happen.

By Ismael Pérez

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Someone in Chicago wants you to watch out for blind people

Wayne Smith shares his experience as a blind person in Chicago and what we all could do to better accommodate people with special needs.

By Ismael Pérez

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Someone in Chicago analyzes his relationship with money during tax season

We want to prepare for the bad and set ourselves up to live within the comfort money can offer. But financial comfort is different for everyone.

By Ismael Pérez

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Someone in Chicago keeps distance from boyfriend's drama-filled family

Be careful to not create anything that might negatively affect your partner and their family. No worries. There are healthy ways to not lose your cool.

By Ismael Pérez

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Someone in Chicago is a rom-com star with advice to share

Colin Egglesfield of “Something Borrowed” shares his thoughts on life and building confidence to put yourself out there.

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Someone in Chicago wonders whether employers value experience

Abrupt firing of accomplished sales rep seems horribly unfair — but is it illegal?

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Someone in Chicago wants you to remember proper walking etiquette

Breaking walking rules is bigger than a simple case of sidewalk rage. People need to be more aware of their surroundings and how their carelessness affects others.

By Ismael Pérez

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Someone in Chicago is dealing with a micromanaging, mansplaining boss

If the patronizing is a common occurrence, it’s your turn to explain and teach him how to talk to you with more respect.

By Ismael Pérez

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Someone in Chicago wonders how to mix friend groups at a party

When it comes to managing your time between friends to keep everybody happy, realize that’s unrealistic to accomplish on your own. Your friends need to be good sports, too.

By Ismael Pérez