Father killed in Highland Park Fourth of July massacre died shielding his 2 ½-year-old son
Kevin McCarthy’s father-in-law said McCarthy, killed along with his wife Irina, “had Aiden under his body when he was shot.” The boy told the grandfather when he picked him up from the police: “Mommy and Daddy are coming soon.”
Aiden McCarthy, a 2 ½-year-old boy left orphaned by the mass shooting at the Highland Park Fourth of July parade Monday, survived because his father shielded him with his body, according to his grandfather.
Kevin McCarthy, 37, died protecting his son, said Michael Levberg, whose 35-year-old daughter Irina — McCarthy’s wife and Aiden’s mother — also was among the seven people killed as they watched the parade.
“He had Aiden under his body when he was shot,” the father-in-law said.
When he picked up his grandson at the Highland Park police station, Levberg said Aiden told him, “Mommy and Daddy are coming soon.”
Also wounded was Aiden’s paternal grandmother Margo McCarthy, who helped with childcare and had gone with her son and daughter-in-law to the parade.
“She was holding Aiden when the shooting started,” her cousin Montgomery Kersten said, and was struck in the neck and an ear and treated for her injuries.
Her son was struck by a bullet in the femoral artery, mortally wounded, Kersten said.
“As she fell, Aiden was under his father,” Kersten said. “I’m sure it was God looking out for him. The Lord saved Aiden and saved Margo.
“Just a couple of millimeters to the right,” and Aiden’s grandmother would have suffered a brain injury, he said.
Irina McCarthy, an only child, “was the love of my life,” her father said. “She was everything.”
Born in Russia, she settled in the Chicago area with her immigrant father and mother, Nina Levberg. She worked as a waitress and attended Stevenson High School in Lincolnshire. She got a bachelor’s degree in finance from DePaul University before landing a job in digital marketing in the pharmaceutical industry, her father said.
Kevin McCarthy also got a bachelor’s degree in finance from DePaul, according to the university.
Levberg said she met Kevin — who worked for a gene therapy startup —through her job in pharmaceuticals.
After the shootings, Aiden “was walking in the street,” his grandfather said. Photos began circulating of the little boy alone.
“A neighbor passed by, she showed me the picture, it was Aiden,” Levberg said. “I picked him up at the police station.”
A GoFundMe page set up for the little boy said: “Aiden will be cared for by his loving family and he will have a long road ahead to heal, find stability, and ultimately navigate life as an orphan. He is surrounded by a community of friends and extended family that will embrace him with love, and any means available to ensure he has everything he needs as he grows.
The online fundraiser said it aims to help “to support him and the caregivers who will be tasked with raising, caring for, and supporting Aiden as he and his support system embark on this unexpected journey.”
The McCarthys had been looking forward to the parade and going to see it with Aiden, Levberg said.
“They were crazy about their child,” he said, his voice breaking. “They were planning two.”
Kevin McCarthy is also survived by his father Michael and sister Katie, Kersten said.
“We’re going to join forces to support Aiden here,” Kersten said, “and to do the best we can to help our nation try and prevent these events from happening in the future.”
Early Tuesday evening, the couple’s bodies had not yet been released to their families.
“We don’t know what to do,” Levberg said.
Jacki Sundheim, 63, of Highland Park, a synagogue preschool teacher, also was among those killed Monday.
In a letter sent to her synagogue’s members, North Shore Congregation Israel Rabbi Wendi Geffen said Sundheim had attended the synagogue her whole life and worked there for decades.
“Jacki’s work, kindness and warmth touched us all, from her teaching at the Gates of Learning Preschool to guiding innumerable among us through life’s moments of joy and sorrow, all of this with tireless dedication,” Geffen wrote.
Three of the four others who died in the parade massacre were identified Tuesday by Lake County Coroner Jennifer Banek as:
- Katherine Goldstein, 64, a longtime Highland Park resident.
- Stephen Straus, 88, of Highland Park.
- Nicolas Toledo Zaragoza, 78, who had spent most of his life in Morelos, Mexico, whom family members had identified Monday as a grandfather visiting family in Highland Park. He’d been with them about two months, and they were trying to get him to stay for good because he still suffered from injuries resulting from being hit by a car a couple of years ago in Highland Park.
The name of the seventh person killed hasn’t been released.
Contributing: Elvia Malagon, Manny Ramos
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